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Welcome to The Program.

 Most of us reach adulthood never having had a single honest conversation about death.


Then someone dies, and we have no idea what to do. What to feel. What to say. How to keep going.


The Program exists to change that. Not by telling you how to grieve, but by giving you the knowledge, the language, and the tools to understand what's happening - before you're in the middle of it, or right when you need it most.


Ten self-led online modules. Evidence-based. Built from lived experience. 


Designed to help you get comfortable with death so you can live a fuller, more honest life.


Because the people who understand death aren't the ones who are afraid of living. They're the ones who do it most completely.

Ready to Start?

 $29.95. Self-paced. Start today. 

The Program.

What You'll Learn.

Module 1 - Strengths

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 1 - Strengths & Goals

We start where you already are. This module explores your personal strengths and how they shape the way you experience and move with grief. You'll identify your top four strengths and understand how to use them, because you already have more than you think. 


60 minutes

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Before we can talk about death honestly, we need to know where we stand with it. This module explores the four main belief systems around death, your own relationship with it, and how grief has already touched your life, whether you've named it that way or not. 


40 minutes

Module 3 - Emotions of Grief

Module 2 - Personal Views on Death

Module 3 - Emotions of Grief

Module 3 - Emotions of Grief

Grief is not one feeling. It's many, often at the same time, often contradictory. This module gives you the language to name what you're actually experiencing and the permission to feel all of it without judgment. 



45 minutes

Module 4 - Actions of Grief

Module 4 - Actions of Grief

Module 3 - Emotions of Grief

Module 4 - Actions of Grief

Grief isn't just something that happens to you. It's something you participate in. This module explores what active, engaged grieving actually looks like, and why showing up for your grief changes everything about how you carry it. 



30 minutes

Module 5 - Life and Living

Module 4 - Actions of Grief

Module 5 - Life and Living

Module 5 - Life & Legacy

Some of the most honest reflections on life come from people who are closest to death. This module draws on the wisdom of people living with terminal illness and those who have experienced profound loss, and what they'd tell you about how to live. 



40 minutes

Module 6 - Empathy

Module 4 - Actions of Grief

Module 5 - Life and Living

Module 6 - Empathy

Empathy is not the same as sympathy and the difference matters enormously in grief. This module explores what empathy actually is, how it changes the way we understand ourselves and others, and how to practise it in real, practical ways. 


40 minutes

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

There is no right way to grieve. This module explores the many ways grief shows up across different people, relationships, and experiences, so you can stop measuring your grief against anyone else's and start understanding your own.




40 minutes

Module 8 - Supporting the Grieving

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 8 - Supporting the Grieving

 Most people want to show up for someone who is grieving but don't know how. This module gives you practical, honest tools for supporting others and for asking for support yourself when you need it. 





40 minutes

Module 9 - Funerals

Module 7 - Everyone Grieves Differently

Module 10 - Personal Death Awareness

Module 9 - Funerals

Funerals are one of the few rituals we have for death and most of us know almost nothing about them until we're standing in the middle of one. This module covers what funerals are for, how they work, and the many ways people choose to mark a death. Including how you might want yours to look. 


45 minutes

Module 10 - Personal Death Awareness

Module 10 - Personal Death Awareness

Module 10 - Personal Death Awareness

Module 10 - Personal Death Awareness

This is where it all comes together. You'll look back across everything you've explored and build your own personal toolkit, a living document of what you know, what you believe, and how you want to meet death and grief when they arrive. 


40 minutes

What You'll Walk Away With

  • The language to talk about death and grief honestly
  • Tools to support yourself when grief arrives
  • The confidence to show up for others who are grieving
  • A personal death awareness toolkit that's entirely yours
  • A fuller relationship with your own life

Ready to Start?

 $29.95. Self-paced. Start today. 

The Program.

 DISCLAIMER  

LightsOut provides grief education and skills development. 

This program does not replace professional mental health care.  

If you are in crisis, please contact: - Lifeline: 13 11 14 - Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 - Emergency: 000  

By using LightsOut, you acknowledge responsibility for your own wellbeing.

LightsOut is not liable for any outcomes resulting from program participation.  


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